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I grapple with this concept a lot at Duke actually, but never thought about it in a religious context (I'm also not religious). Social groups on campus desperately grasp onto traditional exclusivity to preserve their tight-knit communities. There is a limit to the time and energy we have, or the resources we can provide, to cultivate deep relationships. Consequently, there will always be a trade off between the number of acceptances to a group and the commitment of its members (what DefMo calls "buy-in", or as you describe the "full" experience consisting of complete belief), in a way that's more nuanced than I can describe in a couple sentences. Thus, when you say "I have to wonder whether at some point, accessibility to the second community starts to take away from the experience of the first community," I completely agree, and argue it's exactly why students groups remain exclusive and small. This trade-off makes application decisions such a morally gray area: those inside are rightfully motivated to preserve small numbers for the sake of maintaining the experiences of committed members, yet those outside are equally valid in their frustrations for unnecessary exclusivity. To see this concept through a religious lens is extremely interesting. Such a good read.

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